Holding on and letting go.....

There is a  time in life when you have to decide whether to hold on or to let go...of people, of memories or of relationships. These are tough times and even when i have found myself at such cross roads..there's no clear answer....no single option to accept...just no easy way out. And unlike the numerous reality shows there's no 50 50 option, no phone a friend...you just have to roll up your sleeves and face it yourself. Weather we accept it or not most of us have been through such times and most of us have gladly held on the pain and the hurt waiting for times to change. I am no expert on this topic but i will just narrate a small event that happened once, when i was a little boy i climbed a tree, all of a sudden i lost my balance and fell down.....i desperately tried and finally held onto one branch.....i was stuck and frantically calling for help but no one was close by, i held on for almost fifteen minutes and then could take no more, i fell down and fainted. When i awoke all i remembered was the pain of holding on.......and that feeling, that amazing feeling of letting go!